How to Seduce Women

There's something that often happens when you're out playing the 'seduction game' - that is, when you're actively looking out for girls you think you'd like to hook-up with.Many men have experienced it, and many thousands of men still do experience it when they themselves are out playing the game. It usually goes something like this: you're in a group, talking to a couple of girls. You're with a friend or two, perhaps having drinks in a bar or at a party. You've got your eye on one girl in the group in particular and want to make something happen, make a bit of a connection. Thing is, she's proving the hardest to connect to - sure, she smiles and talks to you nicely and politely, but she's not returning your flirtatious gestures and comments much, if at all. It's like she's playing hard to get or something, whereas her female friends seem to be much more playful and flirty.This doesn't happen because you aren't her type or just because sometimes these things happen (or don't) - there's a different, special reason the girl you're interested in doesn't appear to be interested in you and it's got a lot to do with psychology and social standing. You see, when you show you're interested in a good-looking girl who's with her friends, you inadvertently bump up her ego and feeling of self-worth. She knows you've chosen and are most interested in her and likes this feeling of elevated importance. However, she also knows that if she reacts by becoming really flirty and obviously attracted to YOU, she'll lose the higher social value she has over her friends (probably the reason you targeted her in the first place), so she therefore maintains her unattainable, "I'm a bit too good for you" status.However, you can blow this problem out of the water by using DEFLECTION THEORY. You turn the situation on its head and reverse the psychology of your target female by deflecting your attention AWAY from her and ONTO one or more of her friends. When you show her friends (who have lower social value/worth than your target female) more attention and affection, you challenge her ego. So, in an effort to regain her superiority in the hierarchy of her circle of friends, the girl you're really interested in will subconsciously invest much MORE interest in you by flirting and being playful. As so many women do, she gives into wanting what she feels she cannot have - and, of course, you'll be happy to have her. She is, after all, the hottest of the group and the one you wanted in the first place. Here's how to deflect your attention onto one of her friends to make her (the girl you want) feel as if her ego has been challenged and thus make her feel an instant and undeniable desire to get your attention and "win" you back.

Oral Sex on Women

The vagina is a sort of cave of wonders for most men. This organ that is so different from the penis in its physical shape has always been one of the most powerful turn-ons for men and also a constant source of attraction.
Men simply can’t help being curious about it and also about the many techniques they can use on it to give pleasure. Fingers, toys, tongue, lips and penis, nearly all the small parts of our bodies that we can move at all have been used to please women.
And here are a few tips for all you people willing to make your lovers happy, but who are unsure of how to go about it. It doesn’t really matter how you feel about going down on a woman; just keep in mind that she will love it if you really know how to do it and that she will probably be happy to reciprocate. What could be better than a hot lady going down on you and not just out of a sense of obligation, but because she actually wants to do it? Those who are already proficient at oral sex and only want to brush up their skills should read on. This information can’t hurt you.
The best oral sex technique is based on a slow approach that is meant to increase the woman’s arousal without spoiling the mood by being too rough. Start by spreading the labia with two fingers and licking her from the vaginal opening up to the clitoris. Keep at it for a while, changing the movement pattern from time to time, and then have a go at the vagina. Most of the nerve endings that convey the sensation of pleasure are located within the first few inches of the vagina. So stick your tongue in. It won’t go very far inside, but you can move it in circles just inside the opening.
Once the woman is hot enough that licking her vagina is not enough anymore, you can move on to the most sensitive target. Pull back her labia and bring the clitoris into the light. Now you can greet the clitoris with a quick suck. Just take it in your mouth, slide your lips up and down it and then let go. After the initial greeting, you can get to some serious business by taking the clitoris between your lips and flicking your tongue over it. The speed of the tongue depends on how sensitive the clitoris in question is.

Why do Women Play Games?

Have you ever asked the question yourself or heard someone else ask it? This is one question I see quite frequently. Usually pertaining to a situation where a woman is being persued for a relationship but makes courting her difficult. Men are often frustrated as to why women can not just simply state what they think or feel regarding the dirty deed and all the emotions that build up to it.
Women are divided into two groups by men. The good girls and the bad girls. The problem is that no matter which classification women fall into they are berated for it. There is a certain level of embarassment attached to sex brought on by environmental conditioning and religious belief. Women are conditioned since birth that if we have or enjoy sex they will contract diseases be ridiculed and/or go directly to hell.Finding a happy medium is tedious and difficult.
In America it is quite common to see the majority of society pretending they don't like or want anything to do with sex. While the whole time STD and teenage pregnancy statistics rise daily. Every two and a half minutes, somewhere in America, someone is sexually assaulted. People are having sexual relations from early ages on up to those who invest in medical aids to keep it going well into their golden years. Right now as you read this someone, somewhere in America is having sex. We all know we desire it, in fact it is instinctual but we do everything within our power to hide that fact.
If a woman is forward and aggressive about sexual desire she is pooled into the bad girl category automatically. Groups of men speak amongst themselves and label her a pig. She is then treated differently by the group at large, generally with little to no respect. The way she is approached (if she is approached at all) is often disrespectful and seldom is she considered a prospect for a long term relationship.
Women are constantly judged by how many partners they have had and usually any number higher than one makes her ethics and morals questionable. If a woman has put her faith in a man and decided to explore her sexuality or even given in to a man to "keep him satisfied" and allowed multiple positions she is at risk of that man telling all his friends about everything that transpires between them. Once that happens they are judged regardless of whether the woman loves the man or believes him to be her lifelong partner.
On the other hand we have the good girls.
Those who refuse advances and remain chaste.The good women can be brought home to meet the parents and appear in public with their partner openly, while this is conceived as the better of the two types women know this is not the case. The good girls are considered prudes and berated for not 'putting out' and therefore are seldom the first to get dates. Men threaten to leave them on a regular basis if they demand value in the relationship and commitment to allow sexual relations on the basis that they are not fulfilling the mans needs.
Men use womens lack of willingness to submit to spontenaeity and creative sexuality as an excuse to cheat on them. As much as promiscuous women are berated they are far more popular because they tend to fulfill mens desires though they are rapidly discarded afterwards. Naturally it is perfectly ok for a man to be promiscuous in fact the more women he has landed the more he is revered by his friends, however even women will shun other women who have poor reputations so as not to suffer death by association.
So why do women play games?
To preserve their reputations and hopefully avoid being labeled into either category.Therefore women have to find an alternate route to simply saying they have the same desires and urges. Women have to make men chase them only to push them away so they appear neither easy nor frigid. If a woman can not learn to yo-yo a man then she risks disgrace, sterotyping, and the possiblity of solitude.Women fall prey to the double standard imposed by men, so they "play games" because men make them.